In His Own Words
About him
I wish all the women here the very best in their search for love.
I’m 58 and would love to meet someone within 25 miles of Plymouth. I’d prefer to start with a bit of conversation online and, if we get along, meet for coffee or lunch to see where things go. My photos are all recent and unfiltered—no AI tricks, just me as I am.
I enjoy walking—usually 15-30 miles a week, often along the beautiful nature trails near my home. I also love reading, particularly books and magazines on science and nature, though I occasionally dive into biographies as well.
Music & Creativity
Music is a big part of my life. I love timeless classics from the 1940s to the 1980s, including much of what you’d hear on Smooth Radio and Magic. I also enjoy discovering great music from more recent times and occasionally listen to classical pieces—especially Beethoven’s Moonlight Sonata, Rodrigo’s Concerto de Aranjuez, and Khachaturian’s Adagio from Spartacus.
I’m also a songwriter—I've written about 70 songs in the last five years. My music isn’t modern, mainstream pop but comes from a place of sincerity and depth. I appreciate music that endures rather than fades with trends. My favourite formats? Vinyl LPs and SACDs—because great music deserves great sound.
About his ideal match
My ideal match is kind, reliable, modest, considerate, polite, and well-informed. Someone who loves music that stands the test of time, enjoys nature, and has a curious mind. Education is a plus, but a bright, thoughtful perspective on life matters more than formal qualifications.
If any of this resonates with you, I’d love to hear from you. Let’s see where a good conversation can take us.
An example of my song lyrics follows. I'm unable to share the music I composed for the song as this site has no means to do that.
The Secret Garden (lyrics) – Edited Version
I once read a story,
‘An Enchanted Wood’,
And it was a book on all that’s great and good,
A thousand pages wide,
And some that you might hide,
And there within that secret garden,
All I’ll ever need,
For the mysteries of life,
Are in the things that live and breathe,
And I’d have gone there anyway,
To catch its falling leaves,
For,
I once read a story,
In the sky at night,
And it was a book about the inner light,
Its rivers and its streams,
That almost made my dreams,
And there within that secret garden,
All I’ll ever need,
For the mysteries of life,
Are in the melodies it breeds,
And I’d have gone there anyway,
To find it’s growing seeds,
And I wandered around,
In such picturesque valleys,
Where sycamore trees,
Grew in butterfly alleys,
And bloomed all around for the bees,
And,
I still know the story,
If you’re wondering why,
For it was a book about a damselfly,
A creature and her wings,
Her winters and her springs,
And there within her secret garden,
Flowers grew from weeds,
And there was sunshine in the sky,
And a song among the reeds,
And there within that secret garden,
All that I believe,
For the mysteries of love,
Are in the memories it feeds,
But I’d have gone there anyway,
To find out where it leads,
Copyright © 2019, 2022, 2023, 2024, Paul [removed].
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About him
Country of origin: |
United Kingdom | |
Location: |
Plymouth (Crownhill), Devon, England | |
Gender: |
Male | |
Age: |
53 | |
Star sign: |
Leo | |
Height: |
5' 9" (175cm) | |
Body type: |
Average | |
Looks: |
Attractive | |
Hair colour: |
Light Brown | |
Eye colour: |
Blue | |
Relationship Status: |
Single | |
Looking for: |
Just online friends; Activity partners; Friends; Let's see what happens; A short-term relationship; A long-term relationship; Marriage; Something casual | |
Have children: |
No | |
Want children: |
Ask me later | |
Daily diet: |
Eat healthily | |
Smoking: |
Never | |
Drinking: |
Occasionally | |
Education: |
University | |
Occupation: |
Retired | |
Income: |
Enough | |
Ethnicity: |
White/Caucasian | |
Home language: |
English | |
Other languages: |
None | |
Religion: |
Atheist |
About his ideal match
Country of origin: |
United Kingdom | ||
Location: |
Within 20 miles of postcode district PL6 (Plymouth) | ||
Gender: |
Female | ||
Age range: |
27 - 62 | ||
Star sign: |
Any | ||
Height: |
5' 0" (152cm) - 5' 7" (171cm) | ||
Body type: |
Slim; Average; Athletic | ||
Looks: |
Very Attractive; Above Average; Average; Attractive | ||
Hair colour: |
Any | ||
Eye colour: |
Any | ||
Has a photo: |
Non-negotiable | ||
Relationship Status: |
Single; Separated; Divorced; Widowed | ||
Have children: |
Any | ||
Want children: |
No; Maybe | ||
Daily diet: |
Eat most things; Eat healthily; Vegetarian; Halaal; Hindu diet | ||
Smoking: |
Never; Occasionally; Regularly; Trying to Quit; E-cigarette User | ||
Drinking: |
Never; Occasionally | ||
Education: |
Secondary; University / College student; Further education; University; Postgraduate | ||
Occupation: |
Any | ||
Income: |
Struggling; Solvent; Enough | ||
Ethnicity: |
Asian; Indian; Latino/Hispanic; Middle Eastern; White/Caucasian; Mixed | ||
Home language: |
English | ||
Other languages: |
Any | ||
Religion: |
Agnostic; Atheist; Buddhist / Taoist; Spiritual, but not religious |
- Not important at all
- Slightly important
- Moderately important
- Decidedly important
- Non-negotiable
More about him
Sense of humour: |
Light-hearted |
Intelligence: |
Intelligent |
Party behaviour: |
An average mingler |
Personality traits: |
Adventurous; Cautious; Easygoing; Faithful; Generous; Happy; Intelligent; Loving; Loyal; Moody; Optimistic; Philosophical; Quiet; Realistic; Stable; Thoughtful; Trustworthy |
Valued qualities: |
Chemistry; Contentment; Faithfulness; Friendliness; Honesty; Hope; Humour; Kindness; Sexiness |
Fashion sense: |
Contemporary (I'm cool, but I don't need labels) |
Favourite clothing: |
My trusty pair of jeans |
Favourite colour: |
Blue |
Hair style: |
Short; Medium; Straight |
Eyesight: |
I wear glasses and contacts |
Facial hair: |
I'm clean-shaven |
Body hair: |
Light |
Disabilities: |
I have a chronic illness; I have a mental condition; Other |
Body art: |
I don't have any |
Date activities: |
Dinner at a restaurant; Meeting for coffee |
Music preferences: |
Alternative; Broadway / Theatrical; Classical; Country & Western; Dance / Disco; Electronic Dance Music; Folk; Heavy Metal; Instrumental; New Age; Pop / Top 40; R&B / Soul; Reggae; Rock; Scottish |
Reading: |
I read books regularly; I read magazines regularly |
Books: |
(Auto)biographies; Non-fiction; Science / Technology |
TV habits: |
I watch television most days |
TV programmes: |
Action / Adventure; Comedy / Sit-coms; Documentaries; Educational; Movie Channels; Music Channels; Nature/Wildlife; News; Sci-Fi |
Movie frequency: |
Occasionally or irregularly |
Movie preferences: |
Action; Comedy; Cult Classics; Documentary; Drama; Independent; Mystery; Romance; Sci-Fi; War; Westerns |
Interests: |
Computer & video games; Gardening; Healthy living; Music; Photography; Reading; Shopping; Singing; The arts; Voluntary work; Writing poetry |
Sport involvement: |
Watching from the couch |
Sports: |
Birdwatching; Bowling; Cycling; Pool; Walking |
Food: |
Chinese; French; Greek; Indian; Italian |
Go Out to Eat: |
I only eat out on special occasions |
Dietary Restrictions: |
I have none |
Pace of Life: |
Go with the flow |
Time at work: |
I work part-time |
Pastimes of choice: |
Pursuing a hobby |
Time online: |
I'm on for an hour or two a day |
Take drugs: |
Never |
Family size: |
I've got a brother and a sister |
Family contact: |
I see them as often as possible |
Relationship Type: |
I'm just plain single |
Willing to Relocate: |
I'm unlikely to move |
Animals: |
I like animals |
Pets (Like): |
Cat(s); Dog(s); Exotic pet(s); Fish; Reptile(s); Rodent(s) |
Turn-ons: |
Assertiveness; Body piercing(s); Dancing; Erotica; Flirting; Intelligence; Long hair; Tattoo(s) |
Turn-offs: |
Sarcasm |
Religious attendance: |
Rarely |
Dream home: |
Eco home in the countryside |
Retirement plans: |
Living in the country |
Feelings about using Maturity Dating: |
Hopeful; Curious; Optimistic |
Honesty: |
Extremely |
