In Her Own Words
About her
I have a good brain and a good body, and love to use both! I'm open-minded, energetic, curious and confident.
Looking for connection - authentic, trusting, non-judging.
Would you join me in a heart to heart chat, or soaking in the bath, a countryside walk, reading on the sofa, sharing opinions, happy to agree to disagree?
Maybe we share a love of wildlife? Walking, art, architecture, cars, peace and quiet? I'd love you to introduce me to stuff I haven't been aware of before.
'Do not go gentle into that good night' burns in my belly, but weirdly 'carpe diem' doesn't. Mostly I need to feel understood, seen, heard and equally to see, hear and understand my partner.
I can't cope with background radio / music / telly - my brain freezes. Happy to actively listen to the above, background is the problem.
About her ideal match
My ideal match can relate and wants an authentic, genuine, non-judging, warts-and-all connection.
I'm looking for a someone to cherish, care for, support, smile at and about, know deeply and still be surprised by.
A partner for adventures, experiences as well as day to day knocking along.
Someone who enjoys batting ideas around and speculating about whys and wherefores, who is allergic to dogma.
Must be able to *listen* and communicate.
My smile gets progressively wider for compassionate and grounded.
Hopefully within a 45 minute drive.
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About her
Country of origin: |
United Kingdom | |
Location: |
Thame, Oxfordshire, England | |
Gender: |
Female | |
Age: |
62 | |
Star sign: |
Taurus | |
Height: |
5' 7" (170cm) | |
Body type: |
Slim | |
Looks: |
Above Average | |
Hair colour: |
Light Brown | |
Eye colour: |
Blue | |
Relationship Status: |
Divorced | |
Looking for: |
Activity partners; Friends; Let's see what happens; A long-term relationship; Marriage | |
Have children: |
No | |
Want children: |
No | |
Daily diet: |
Eat healthily | |
Smoking: |
Never | |
Drinking: |
Never | |
Education: |
University | |
Occupation: |
Media | |
Income: |
Comfortable | |
Ethnicity: |
White/Caucasian | |
Home language: |
English | |
Other languages: |
French; Welsh | |
Religion: |
Agnostic |
About her ideal match
Country of origin: |
Anywhere in the World | ||
Location: |
Within 40 miles of postcode district OX49 (Watlington) | ||
Gender: |
Female; Male | ||
Age range: |
54 - 66 | ||
Star sign: |
Any | ||
Height: |
5' 4" (162cm) - 6' 3" (191cm) | ||
Body type: |
Slim; Average; Athletic; A few extra pounds; Curvaceous; Stocky | ||
Looks: |
Any | ||
Hair colour: |
Any | ||
Eye colour: |
Any | ||
Has a photo: |
Not important at all | ||
Relationship Status: |
Single; Separated; Divorced; Widowed; It's Complicated | ||
Have children: |
No; Yes, not living with me; Yes, living with me sometimes | ||
Want children: |
No; Maybe | ||
Daily diet: |
Any | ||
Smoking: |
Never | ||
Drinking: |
Never; Occasionally; Several times a week | ||
Education: |
Any | ||
Occupation: |
Any | ||
Income: |
Solvent; Enough; Comfortable; Wealthy | ||
Ethnicity: |
Latino/Hispanic; White/Caucasian; Other; Mixed | ||
Home language: |
English; Danish; Dutch; Finnish; French; Gaelic / Irish; German; Greek; Hebrew; Italian; Norwegian; Polish; Portuguese; Romanian; Serbian; Spanish; Swedish; Turkish; Welsh; Other | ||
Other languages: |
Any | ||
Religion: |
Agnostic; Atheist; Buddhist / Taoist; Christian / Catholic; Christian / Protestant; Christian / Other; Jewish; Spiritual, but not religious; Christian / Orthodox |
- Not important at all
- Slightly important
- Moderately important
- Decidedly important
- Non-negotiable
More about her
Intelligence: |
Highbrow |
Personality traits: |
Adventurous; Confident; Faithful; Generous; Independent; Intelligent; Loving; Loyal; Philosophical; Quiet; Sensible; Shy; Stable; Thoughtful; Trustworthy |
Valued qualities: |
Compassion; Honesty; Humility; Kindness; Self-control; Sexiness |
Fashion sense: |
Alternative (I'm stylish in my own special way) |
Favourite clothing: |
I'm most comfortable naked |
Hair style: |
Long |
Eyesight: |
I wear glasses only when reading |
Disabilities: |
I have none |
Body art: |
I don't have any |
Date activities: |
A movie; A picnic in a park; Dinner at a restaurant; Going to the theatre; Meeting for coffee; Going for a walk; Visiting a gallery; Going to a museum |
Music preferences: |
Classical; Folk |
Reading: |
I read books occasionally |
Books: |
(Auto)biographies; Crime; Fiction; Mystery; Non-fiction; Science / Technology; Self-help |
TV habits: |
I don't have a television |
TV programmes: |
Cooking / Baking; Documentaries; Game shows; Nature/Wildlife |
Movie frequency: |
Occasionally or irregularly |
Movie preferences: |
Comedy; Documentary; Drama; Independent; Mystery |
Interests: |
Cooking; Healthy living; Reading; The arts; Voluntary work |
Sport involvement: |
Not involved at all |
Sports: |
Canoeing; Dance; Hiking; Ice Skating; Walking |
Food: |
Doesn't matter |
Go Out to Eat: |
I eat out a few times a month |
Dietary Restrictions: |
Gluten-free |
Time at work: |
I work a standard 40 hour week |
Pastimes of choice: |
Pursuing a hobby |
Family contact: |
I rarely see them |
Relationship Type: |
I'm just plain single |
Willing to Relocate: |
I'd consider it |
Animals: |
I love my pet(s) |
Pets (Like): |
Bird(s); Cat(s); Dog(s); Horse(s) |
Turn-ons: |
Assertiveness; Erotica; Intelligence |
Work aspirations: |
Find new, more meaningful work |
Dream home: |
Eco home in the countryside |
Retirement plans: |
Doing voluntary work |
Feelings about using Maturity Dating: |
Curious; Optimistic |
Honesty: |
Extremely |
