In His Own Words
About him
Looking to meet new friends and create a few new adventures along the way.
Life doesn’t come with an age limit on fun, and I believe friendship, laughter, and good times can be even better after 50.
I enjoy cooking (I’m not claiming to be a master chef, but I’m still surviving in the kitchen!). Music is a big part of my life, especially Soul and Smooth Jazz, which I love playing as a hobby.
I’m also an active “dog borrower,” walking a little Shih Tzu a few times a week, which always adds a bit of joy to the day.
Life seems to race by so quickly these days, so I’m learning to slow down, take a breath, and enjoy the moments that matter.
About his ideal match
I’d love to meet someone kind, easygoing, and who enjoys the simple things in life — good conversation, laughter, and the occasional adventure. Someone who appreciates music
( especially Soul or Smooth Jazz, or at least doesn’t mind it playing in the background).
Enjoys a home-cooked meal now and then, even if the chef is still learning, and doesn’t mind a relaxed walk — sometimes with a small borrowed dog in tow.
Most of all, I’m looking for someone who believes life after 50 can still be full of fun, friendship, and great moments shared together.
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About him
Country of origin: |
Kenya | |
Location: |
Esher, Surrey, England | |
Gender: |
Male | |
Age: |
56 | |
Star sign: |
Virgo | |
Height: |
5' 7" (170cm) | |
Body type: |
A few extra pounds | |
Looks: |
Average | |
Hair colour: |
Greying | |
Eye colour: |
Brown | |
Relationship Status: |
Separated | |
Looking for: |
Just online friends; Activity partners; Friends; Let's see what happens; A short-term relationship; A long-term relationship; Something casual | |
Have children: |
Yes, not living with me | |
Want children: |
No | |
Daily diet: |
Eat most things | |
Smoking: |
Never | |
Drinking: |
Occasionally | |
Education: |
Further education | |
Occupation: |
Administrative / Secretarial | |
Income: |
Ask me later | |
Ethnicity: |
Mixed | |
Home language: |
English | |
Other languages: |
Ask me later | |
Religion: |
Christian / Catholic |
About his ideal match
Country of origin: |
Anywhere in the World | ||
Location: |
Anywhere in the United Kingdom | ||
Gender: |
Female | ||
Age range: |
44 - 72 | ||
Star sign: |
Any | ||
Height: |
5' 0" (152cm) - 6' 0" (184cm) | ||
Body type: |
Slim; Average; Athletic; A few extra pounds; Curvaceous; Full figured | ||
Looks: |
Any | ||
Hair colour: |
Any | ||
Eye colour: |
Any | ||
Has a photo: |
Moderately important | ||
Relationship Status: |
Single; Separated; Divorced; Widowed | ||
Have children: |
No; Yes, not living with me; Yes, living with me sometimes | ||
Want children: |
No | ||
Daily diet: |
Eat most things | ||
Smoking: |
Never | ||
Drinking: |
Occasionally | ||
Education: |
Any | ||
Occupation: |
Any | ||
Income: |
Any | ||
Ethnicity: |
Any | ||
Home language: |
English | ||
Other languages: |
Any | ||
Religion: |
Any |
- Not important at all
- Slightly important
- Moderately important
- Decidedly important
- Non-negotiable
More about him
Sense of humour: |
Light-hearted |
Intelligence: |
Street Smart |
Ruled by: |
The heart |
Party behaviour: |
An average mingler |
Personality traits: |
Easygoing; Faithful; Generous; Loving; Loyal; Sensible; Shy; Thoughtful; Trustworthy |
Valued qualities: |
Chemistry; Contentment; Faithfulness; Friendliness; Honesty; Humility; Humour; Kindness |
Fashion sense: |
Casual (I'm usually in my favourite jeans) |
Favourite colour: |
Blue |
Hair style: |
Short |
Eyesight: |
I wear glasses |
Facial hair: |
I have a full beard |
Body hair: |
Light |
Body art: |
I don't have any |
Date activities: |
A movie; A picnic in a park; Dinner at a restaurant; Going to the theatre; Meeting for coffee; Meeting for drinks; Going for a walk |
Music preferences: |
Dance / Disco; Jazz; R&B / Soul; Reggae |
Reading: |
I read books occasionally; I read newspapers occasionally |
Books: |
(Auto)biographies; Crime; Fiction; Non-fiction |
TV habits: |
I rarely watch television |
TV programmes: |
Documentaries; Music Channels; Nature/Wildlife |
Movie frequency: |
Occasionally or irregularly |
Movie preferences: |
Action; Comedy; Documentary; Drama; Independent |
Interests: |
Cooking; Gardening; Music; Woodwork |
Sport involvement: |
Watching from the couch |
Sports: |
Athletics; Birdwatching; Boxing; Extreme sports; Fishing; Martial arts; Rugby; Shooting; Tennis |
Cooking: |
I really enjoy cooking |
Food: |
Asian Fusion; Chinese; Gastro Pub; Greek; Indian; Italian; Pub Grub; Thai |
Go Out to Eat: |
I eat out a few times a month |
Dietary Restrictions: |
Diabetic |
Pace of Life: |
Go with the flow |
Time at work: |
I work a standard 40 hour week |
Pastimes of choice: |
Spending time with the family |
Time online: |
I'm on for an hour or two a day |
Take drugs: |
Never |
Family contact: |
I see them when I can |
Relationship Type: |
I'm just plain single |
Willing to Relocate: |
I'd consider it |
Animals: |
I like animals |
Pets (Like): |
Bird(s); Cat(s); Dog(s); Exotic pet(s); Fish; Horse(s) |
Pets (Dislike): |
Reptile(s); Rodent(s) |
Turn-ons: |
Flirting; Intelligence; Showing affection in public |
Turn-offs: |
Sarcasm |
Work aspirations: |
Find new, more meaningful work |
Religious attendance: |
Only on religious holidays |
Dream home: |
In the country |
Retirement plans: |
Travelling cross-country in a mobile home |
Feelings about using Maturity Dating: |
Nervous; Curious |
Honesty: |
Very |