In Her Own Words
About her
I have lived a full, rich life, and I am entirely done with the mundane. If you are looking for predictable routines or shallow small talk, we will likely miss each other. I am wired for big energy, deep thoughts, and real, unfiltered connection. Having lived abroad for over 25 years, my curiosity about people, languages, film, and global human rights isn't just an interest; it's a fundamental part of how I see the world.
My friends would affectionately describe me as a warm, empathetic listener who will fiercely have your back when it counts, wrapped up in a quick-witted, high-energy package. They also playfully call me the QOC - the Queen of Chaos. I am a big dreamer and an expert juggler who constantly has lots of exciting things on the go. I balance that high-octane drive with plenty of playfulness, a love for adventure, and a healthy dose of real-world human moments (despite my best attempts, I have somehow managed to rack up nine parking tickets already this year.)
On any given day, you’ll find me chasing a ball on a Padel court, twisted into a yoga pose, locked in a competitive game of backgammon, or planning a trip to my beautiful house in France, which is one of my absolute favourite places to hang out and just be. I am deeply connected to the spiritual side of life - meditation and pushing my own internal growth edges are non-negotiable for me, but I am equally grounded in the joy of long walks with my dog, good food, great wine, beautiful conversation and connection with friends.
I come with a beautifully chaotic, large family dynamic, including three adult children who are officially "fully cooked" and independent. I am fiercely independent myself, a warrior when I need to be, but I’ve done enough inner work to happily drop the "superwoman" act. I don't want to play that role anymore; I value my soft, vulnerable side just as much as my strength. Life is meant to be lived and experienced, not neatly curated.
About her ideal match
What I am looking for:
I have a huge amount of love, wit, and fierce loyalty to give, and I am looking for an equal who shares that same generous, un-boring love of life. Someone who values true connection and isn't afraid of the deeper stuff; self-aware, high in both EQ and IQ! I am drawn to men who are entirely at home in their own skin. Someone who can hold their own in a fast-paced conversation, play a mean game of backgammon, and ideally has a fabulous pair of forearms!
Crucially, you shouldn't take life too seriously. If you load the dishwasher with the precision of a Scandinavian architect, you need to be highly compatible with a raccoon on speed, because that is the energy I am bringing to the kitchen.
But beneath the high energy and the playful chaos, I am looking for a rare and beautiful kind of emotional safety. I want a partner who truly sees me. The kind of relationship where we can transition effortlessly from a high-energy adventure to sitting together in beautiful, shared silence. An equal with whom I feel entirely known, valued, and safe enough to drop the "warrior" armour and just be.
I don’t need a flawless romance; I want a co-author for a beautifully real, imperfectly perfect story. If you are a man of true substance who is ready to be fully seen, and who has the capacity to see me in return, let’s talk.
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About her
Country of origin: |
United Kingdom | |
Location: |
Cheltenham, Gloucestershire, England | |
Gender: |
Female | |
Age: |
58 | |
Star sign: |
Cancer | |
Height: |
5' 5" (165cm) | |
Body type: |
Curvaceous | |
Looks: |
Attractive | |
Hair colour: |
Auburn | |
Eye colour: |
Blue | |
Relationship Status: |
Divorced | |
Looking for: |
Let's see what happens; A long-term relationship | |
Have children: |
Yes, not living with me | |
Want children: |
No | |
Daily diet: |
Eat healthily | |
Smoking: |
Never | |
Drinking: |
Occasionally | |
Education: |
Postgraduate | |
Occupation: |
Self-employed | |
Income: |
Comfortable | |
Ethnicity: |
White/Caucasian | |
Home language: |
English | |
Other languages: |
Arabic; French | |
Religion: |
Spiritual, but not religious |
About her ideal match
Country of origin: |
Anywhere in the World | ||
Location: |
Within 60 miles of postcode district GL52 (Cheltenham) | ||
Gender: |
Male | ||
Age range: |
54 - 66 | ||
Star sign: |
Any | ||
Height: |
5' 9" (174cm) - 6' 4" (194cm) | ||
Body type: |
Slim; Average; Athletic; A few extra pounds | ||
Looks: |
Very Attractive; Above Average; Attractive | ||
Hair colour: |
Any | ||
Eye colour: |
Any | ||
Has a photo: |
Non-negotiable | ||
Relationship Status: |
Single; Separated; Divorced; Widowed; It's Complicated | ||
Have children: |
Any | ||
Want children: |
No | ||
Daily diet: |
Eat most things; Eat healthily; Vegetarian | ||
Smoking: |
Never | ||
Drinking: |
Never; Occasionally; Several times a week | ||
Education: |
University / College student; Further education; University; Postgraduate | ||
Occupation: |
Any | ||
Income: |
Solvent; Enough; Comfortable; Wealthy | ||
Ethnicity: |
Asian; Black/African descent; Indian; Latino/Hispanic; Middle Eastern; White/Caucasian; Mixed; Black/Caribbean descent | ||
Home language: |
English | ||
Other languages: |
Any | ||
Religion: |
Any |
- Not important at all
- Slightly important
- Moderately important
- Decidedly important
- Non-negotiable
More about her
Sense of humour: |
Witty |
Intelligence: |
Highbrow |
Ruled by: |
The heart |
Party behaviour: |
A social butterfly |
Personality traits: |
Adventurous; Ambitious; Confident; Daring; Faithful; Funny; Generous; Happy; Independent; Intelligent; Loving; Loyal; Optimistic; Outgoing; Philosophical; Thoughtful; Trustworthy |
Valued qualities: |
Chemistry; Compassion; Forgiveness; Friendliness; Honesty; Hope; Humility; Humour; Kindness; Sexiness; Tolerance |
Fashion sense: |
Alternative (I'm stylish in my own special way) |
Hair style: |
Medium; Straight; Curly; Out of control; It has its moods |
Eyesight: |
I wear glasses only when reading |
Body art: |
I don't have any |
Date activities: |
A movie; A music concert; A picnic in a park; Attending a sporting event; Dinner at a restaurant; Going out dancing; Going to the theatre; Meeting for coffee; Meeting for drinks; Going for a walk; Visiting a gallery; Going to a museum |
Reading: |
I read books regularly; I read newspapers occasionally |
Books: |
Fiction; Non-fiction |
Movie frequency: |
Once or twice a month |
Interests: |
Board games; Card games; Cooking; Gardening; Healthy living; Meditation; Music; Politics; Reading; Writing books; Writing poetry |
Sport involvement: |
An active participant |
Sports: |
Backgammon; Badminton; Golf; Hiking; Motorsport; Running; Skiing; Tennis; Walking; Weight training; Yoga |
Cooking: |
I love it! |
Food: |
Asian Fusion; Chinese; Fine Dining; French; Gastro Pub; Greek; Indian; Italian; Japanese; Seafood; Sushi; Thai; Vietnamese |
Go Out to Eat: |
I eat out a few times a month |
Dietary Restrictions: |
I have none |
Pace of Life: |
Go with the flow |
Family size: |
I've got brothers and sisters |
Family contact: |
I see them when I can |
Relationship Type: |
I'm just plain single |
Willing to Relocate: |
I'd consider it |
Animals: |
I love my pet(s) |
Pets (Have): |
Dog(s) |
Pets (Like): |
Bird(s); Fish; Reptile(s); Horse(s) |
Pets (Dislike): |
Rodent(s) |
Turn-ons: |
Intelligence; Thrill seeking |
Turn-offs: |
Sarcasm; Tattoo(s) |
Work aspirations: |
I already have my ideal job |
Religious attendance: |
Rarely |
Retirement plans: |
Seeing the world in style |
Feelings about using Maturity Dating: |
Hopeful |
Honesty: |
Extremely |